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More Couples Will Decide to Divorce on January 7 Than Any Other Day in 2013

By Karen Stewart

January 7What’s your New Year’s resolution? Whether it’s giving up wine or chocolate, getting fit, changing jobs, or travelling more, many people made their pledges as the famous New Year’s Eve Ball descended from the flagpole atop Times Square at midnight on the 31st of December. And many of those pledges had to do with getting a divorce in 2013.

After years of being in the divorce business, I know full well that January is the most common month of the year for couples to file their divorce papers, based on how busy my office gets that time of year. In fact, one can even pinpoint the exact day. We call it “D” day and it is the first Monday after school reopens and the beginning of the first full work week after the long holiday break. In 2013 that date is Monday, January 7th.

The mounting pressures of high unemployment rates, crumbling real estate prices, the high cost and expectation of Christmas, and trying to stick it out as a family for the sake of the kids, is often too much for a couple to bear. These stressors can take your health, and they certainly can destroy your relationship with your spouse.

But it doesn’t happen overnight. “D” day is the culmination of a long, painful process of thinking, evaluating and deciding. The idea has probably been simmering for most of 2012 and many individuals delayed the inevitable for a number of reasons – sometimes it’s simply a worry about the cost; some individuals are not 100% sure they can follow through with it; and many are concerned that a divorce when house prices are falling means they’ll lose too much and they won’t have anything to start over with.

And, of course, a major factor for many couples is their children. Prior to the holiday season this year, a surprisingly high number of couples sadly shared with us that 2012 would be their last family Christmas together before dad and mom split up. We have a handful of couples who even made pre-Christmas appointments to visit our office in January to discuss their divorces.

So, if you are one of the couples beginning the divorce journey this January, we understand that it was not an overnight decision, and in fact, it’s been a long, painful one. But remember that it is just a transition, not a way of life. You will get through it and you will once again find happiness.

Is this the year you make a different kind of resolution, a divorce resolution? If you live in British Columbia give us a call. The first meeting is on us and we’ll explain how you can both win.

Wes Stevenson
(250) 768-9100
Fairway Divorce Solutions Kelowna