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How can you keep your Dignity intact when your Divorce is on TV?

By Karen Stewart

Kris and KimKris Humphries doesn’t want a penny from Kim Kardashian because he claims the marriage was a fraud.

Was the marriage used to increase ratings? Was it all just a strategic business move to collect an ROI on the $17 million wedding day? Well, Kris sure thinks so, and it seems that America agrees.

In the latest news, it appears that all Kris wants is for Kim to admit the marriage was a fraud for capital gain. In order to prove his point, he would like to show the latest season of the reality show in the courtroom. Their marriage was obviously a circus with a high admission fee, but bringing the reality show into the courtroom is a sideshow that is wasting the court system’s (taxpayers) time and dollars. As there is no high settlement being demanded by Kris, I say he leaves the reality scene with his dignity intact and tries to be the bigger person.

It is difficult to keep a hold of your dignity in any marital breakdown. Having the last word becomes such a driver yet individuals need to overcome this revengefulness and get to an agreement. Or it will cost them greatly. Having the last word is not all it is cracked up to be and so let go before you waste a ton of money trying to prove you are right and your spouse is wrong. The bottom line — no one really cares and your hopes of vindication are short-sighted. What’s important is to move forward feeling empowered and self-confident about your future. Do not allow yourself to become the lesser version of you.

If I were to give Kris one piece of advice – it would be – move on now! Put the Kardashian’s behind you.