Mediation Benefits
There are two paths you can choose when faced with divorce:
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Mediation |
Litigation | |
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Cost |
Flat fee or $200–$500/hour for divorce mediation time (shared between parties) Average total: $8,000–$20,000 |
Average rate for attorneys in divorce litigation is $300–$600/hr each Average total: $20,000+ per person |
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Time |
Average time: 3–8 months |
Average time: 2–5 years |
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Role of the Law |
Legal information provided by divorce mediator, but no legal advice given. |
Legal information and legal advice given by counsel. |
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Impact on Children |
Children's interests are central to decision making. |
Children often stuck in the middle of the dispute between spouses. |
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Emotional Cost to Parties |
Allow for healthy airing of diverse views and emotions. More comfortable, cooperative. |
Increases anxiety and stress. Little opportunity to address concerns. |
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Impact on Communication |
Promotes improved communication. Sets stage for joint decision-making. Encourages personal empowerment. |
Divorce litigation discourages communication. Sets stage for disagreements and possible court appearances. |
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Decision Making |
Clients make their own decisions. |
Third parties (judges and attorneys) make decisions. |
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Confidentiality |
Discussions and financial information are confidential. Usually no court appearances. |
Hearings are open to the public. Financial information is part of the public record. Several court appearances. |