Fairway Divorce Solutions

Is it ever too late to pull the plug on a BAD marriage?

The questions “Is 40 years too long?” and “ Should you just stay?”  were posed on a number of internet sites .  That is not the correct question. The correct question is as posed above.   

The answer is really quite simple.

IF you have done the internal work and you have come to the place where the union no longer is supporting the spiritual well being of the parties;

IF  there is integrity in the decision with regards to the future well being of the parties;

IF you have committed to the journey of counseling with the intent of getting to the place where you could make a informed and well balanced decision with no attachment to the outcome;

IF you have honored the spirit of the union from the past but trust that it is time to move on to another place;

IF there is not a third party involved, and

IF you trust

THEN YES

BUT my experience is that so few possess this self-awareness nor have they done the work that it takes to be truly authentic.

SO they project their lack of  “happiness” onto the marriage where is does not belong.   Happiness comes from within and is available to all who do the work.

THEREFORE it is a shame for most!